Life is a Journey

I am a Star Wars fanatic and I am a follower of Christ. The similarities between the Christian Faith and the Jedi Order have caused books to be written and I find it to be a great way to present my personal journey of faith as Jedi/Christian.

I know I am no longer a Padawan but somewhere in the midst of my knighthood my path got blurred, my faith had weakened, and I had almost lost hold of the purpose of the Jedi. Now equipped with the love of a family, a renewed hope with a purpose I am trying to find the my way back to the Order. My goal and desire is to be a Knight worthy of the honor, blessing and title of the Order. I Knight walking by deeds, words and power as I strive and grow into what the Masters have called me to be.

My Journey has not been easy and I have stumbled, struggled,
faltered, fell, even at times given up. However the Force and many of the Orders Knights and Masters haven't given up on me. So this is were you can join me in the very midst of my journey. That is the purpose of this blog. To be a place where others can join me in the journey that lies in the places somewhere between Padawan And Master. I hope to share the insight and words that touch my soul and catch hold of my intellect and my heart. To expose the things I fear and those things that spur me forward. It is my journey and I welcome you along.

Kenton J Mattos

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

My Goals for 2011: Part 2- 1/20/2011

Well 12 days later than I wanted this post to be, I am here writing part 2 of my goals for 2011. In this post I wanted to briefly outline a few habits/routines I want to put into practice in my life. Then I am going to give a basic schedule I want to make a part of my life daily to make the habits a part of my life. Then lastly I would like to share my plan for working out and my back up plans I was suppose to have posted by the end of last week. Then I will be making a part 3 that is some more goals for the year to improve my health in other areas that I wrote about in the blog posting on the Mattos Family Blog - A Healthier Mattos Family in 2011 - 01/02/2011.

Daily habits that will make me healthier
  1. Devotion and prayer time with Mandy

  2. Praying over Mandy, Jillian and Joshua

  3. Create To-Do-List for goals and tasks to complete

  4. Brush Teeth minimum of two times a day

  5. Floss Teeth

  6. Take vitamins

  7. Read a chapter in a book

  8. Household chore/task


Weekly habits that will make me healthier
  1. Plan for the next week

    1. Create schedule for the week

      1. List activities such as shopping and library and what days the will be done

      2. List appointments or meetings

      3. List Goals and to-dos for the week

    2. Create Meal Plan

    3. Make Shopping List

  2. Workout minimum of three times a week

  3. Until Job Found make at least 10 job contacts a week.
    A contact counts as a completed application submitted, setting up interviews either informational or job specific and follow up after application or interview


Monthly Habits that will make me healthier
  1. Date with wife

  2. Date with daughter

  3. Mattos Family Game Night

  4. Budget Committee Meeting













































Daily Schedule
Monday - Friday
6:55 AMWake up and get out of bed
7:00 - 7:30 AMPrayer/Devotion/Coffee with Mandy
7:30 - 8:00 AMMe Time/Start planning for day
8:00 AMWake Jillian up
8:00 - 8:50 AMGet Jillian and self fed, dressed and hair done
12:00 - 1:00 PMGet Jillian and self fed, spend some time reading and ready for nap
1:00 - 4:00 PMJillian nap/rest/quiet time. Finish days tasks and to-dos then me time
No later than 4:00 PMWake up/Let Jillian be done with rest/nap/quiet time
5:10 PMDinner is to be done by 5:10 PM if working. Start dinner accordingly
5:45 PMIf scheduled at 6:00 PM leave for work.
After Dinner Clean up is completed spend time as a family
No later than 11:45 PMHave Teeth brushed and be in bed
Monday, Wednesday, Friday
8:50 AMTake Jillian to School
9:10 AMStart workout at YMCA
10:10 AMEnd Workout and shower and dress for day
10:30 - 11:50 AMWork on tasks and to-dos
12:00 PMPick up Jillian from School
Tuesday and Thursday
9:00 AM - 12:00 PMWork on tasks and to-dos for Jillian and self. Once done Jilly and daddy free time.
Before 12:00 PMBe home if out and about unless planned to have lunch out. Key here is lunch out is to be planned.


Here is my work out routine.
Monday, Wednesday, Friday After dropping Jillian off for school I will be going to the YMCA to work out.













MondayWarm Up - 10 minutesWeight Lifting - 20 minutes - Core/BackCardio - 30 minutes
WednesdayWarm Up - 10 minutesWeight Lifting - 30 minutes - Legs/ArmsCardio - 20 minutes
FridayWarm Up - 10 minutesWeight Lifting - 20 minutes - Core/BackCardio - 30 minutes


I have chosen three back up plans on the occasion that going to the YMCA is not an option.
  1. 30 minute walk

  2. 20 minute bike ride

  3. When I get my weight down I will use the WII Fit again for 30 minutes

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Just a Note - 1/09/2011

I just wanted to tell everyone who has been waiting for the next installment of My goals for 2011. This weekend got busy with stuff around the house and a late budget committee meeting. The good news is there is no longer a Tree up and what remains of the decorations are our winter snowmen. The other good news is despite the late budget committee meeting it got done.

So I will try to get the next installment done tomorrow in between doing some job search stuff.

Well to meet my goal for bedtime I got two minutes for the last thought I wanted to share. Something I read today from Charles Swindoll's book Hand me Another Brick.

"Adversity forces us to trust, to wait on God, to lean on His arms for strength"

If you are facing some stuff right now or over this past year as many are and I know Mandy and I have sure been feeling it over the past couple of years. Remember that there is always a reason for every season and it is God's reason not ours. This is a reminder that I need for myself daily.

Friday, January 7, 2011

My Goals for 2011: Part 1- 1/07/2011

Some of you may have read my post on our family blog and if not please go check it out. This post is more of my personal goals for making a healthier me and in turn a healthier family for the year 2011.

Is there something I want to be? When I look at my life am I who I want to be? Have I chosen a belief system that I truly want to live out and model in my life? Am I living up to the standards, beliefs and values I have chosen? Why not? What is holding me back or stopping me? Is it that the values, beliefs, or desires for my life are impossible or wrong? Is it just a matter of pressing on and persevering a little longer until I reach it? Is what I am working towards my choice or was it imposed on me? Is it my faith, my beliefs and my life that I am comparing myself to? These are all questions I have been and am still asking myself as I process myself, my life, my faith and who I want to be.

This is a hard and humbling post for me. One which I have had to battle with myself and my insecurities, fear, pride and a bit of shame in the decision to post.

These are my goals and my plans which I have decided I need to work on to make me better and healthier. To bring me closer to the me I want to be and what I believe I was created to be. Some of my goals and the plans, routines and habits I feel I need to put into place which you are going to read are very basic and rudimentary to some if not most people and you might not think a 34 year old man should need to be working on them. Some of my bad habits are out of training or lack of training others are out of lack of knowledge and sadly some started out of plain laziness. Please not matter why I ask that you try and respect me and support me as I work towards healthy habits and healthy living.

So why write these things and make them public. Because I need change and this is blog is about my journey. It is about me expressing where I am, where I am going and all that I go through as I move from one to the other. My hope is that as you read you will decide join me on my journey by supporting me, by keeping me in your thoughts and in your prayers. And if you are so taken please feel free to check in on me from time and again. I acknowledge my need supporters, encouragers, and some people to partner with me. Maybe by posting this I will find more supporters than I have currently in my corner. Maybe by being open with my short comings others can be encouraged and supported to face their own with a openness that is often missed in today's world.

Goal 1) Getting Physically Healthier
  1. Eating/Drinking Healthier - This can be a broad topic or idea and there can be much debate about what it means and what practices and habits are truly healthy and not. For me here are some very specific patterns or habits I want to change.


    1. Get rid of and keep the junk food stock pile out of the house.

    2. Plan meals with the goal the goal of being healthy in mind. Using more vegetables, lean proteins and legumes and less simple carbohydrates and fatty proteins.
      Two mini goals are to have one fish dish and one salad dish each week
      Another key here is to pack snacks for work and then eat them instead of buying junk at work.

    3. Pay attention to portion sizes

    4. Slow Down!!! Eat slower and learn to enjoy the food and the meal time more.

    5. Drink water!!! The goal for water consumption is a minimum of 48 ounces a day. More is better.
      Mini goal here is to stick with plain old water here. Stop drinking carbonated and artificially flavored or sweetened waters

  2. Physical Activity - Being more active physically can help reduce stress and increase energy both of which I know I need. So what are my goals to do this? Luckily for me and you they are in the following list.


    1. Get off my but and do somethings. My challenge for myself here is to get myself and Jillian up and doing things that don't involve us sitting. This isn't necessarily exercise that goal is coming next. This is getting up and moving.

      1. Do stuff around the house. Each day should entail at least one task that around the house being done. Sweep, Mop, Dust, Dust, Vacuum, do the dishes any of which mean getting up.

      2. Get out of the house and go somewhere. Take a trip to the library, the park, go grocery shopping but do something a few times a week that gets you out of the house and up on your feet other than work and taking Jilly to School.

    2. Create and follow through on a exercise routine. We have a membership to the YMCA which has a lap pool, workout area with a variety of exercise equipment, a Gym and plenty of exercise classes and activities to choose from all of which can be used to create a varied and well rounded exercise routine. In the words of Nike I need to "Just do it!" no excuses just get it done.
      At a minimum Exercise will be 3 times a week for at least 15 minutes of a cardiovascular workout. So even if I am not able to get in a full planed routine I am getting the minimum.
      My first Goal is by the end of next week is to post one main workout routine and two backup routines for the days I can't do my main one.

  3. Change Sleeping routine. I need to get myself in the habit of getting to bed earlier. Now early for me will not be until like 11:30 PM until I am able to change my work schedule since I normally work until 11:00 PM. On the other side of the spectrum I need to get my *$$ out of bed earlier. I hate to say this but the alarm needs to be my friend and ally. Here is the official Sleep Routine Goal. In Bed by 11:45 PM and up by 7:00 AM.

Do to the length of that this post is turning out to be I am going to break it up into a few segments. Tomorrow I am going to outline some goals and routines which I hope will help reduce stress, decrease chaos and allowing me to become more effective and productive in my life.

PS. A little birdie told me good goals are SMART(Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant and Time Bound) goals. So as I work through my list of goals and changes I will be trying to develop SMART goals and posting them such as my Goal to have one main and two backup workout routines posted by end of next week.

Miracle the post in working - 1/07/2011

I am still working through the blog post for the future regarding miracles. I have been hoping for a bit more response from others to help me develop a better picture of how people view and define a miracle. So I thought I would try to work up the definition of miracle from another place and see what people think.

World English Dictionary
miracle (ˈmɪrək ə l) [Click for IPA pronunciation guide]

n
1. an event that is contrary to the established laws of nature and attributed to a supernatural cause
2. any amazing or wonderful event
3. a person or thing that is a marvellous example of something: the bridge was a miracle of engineering
Which definition fits how you view a miracle. Also think about the following questions. Then choose your method of letting me know your opinion and thoughts.

Can miracles ever be ordinary? Do they happen regularly? Do they happen at all? What makes something a miracle?

Thanks,

Kenton